Well I’m sure you get the point? Most of your customers are ultimately all trying to achieve the same thing! Orgasm. I say this because really if a woman is purchasing (for example) a G-Spot vibe for herself, then wouldn’t you think it is for pleasure and to bring her to climax?. If a man purchases (for example) a Clit Smoocher for himself, is it not for the same thing?
This is also true for books, games, etc as these all help people with sex, with a partner or alone. Read on to further understand what the big deal is about and the different books available to help with this.

Definition of Orgasm - sexual climax: the climax of sexual excitement, consisting of intense muscle tightening around the genital area experienced as a pleasurable wave of tingling sensations through parts of the body. Now really, who wouldn’t try to achieve that! An orgasm is the much sought after finish to a period of high sexual arousal. During the woman’s excitement, the body draws blood to her clitoris, labia, and surrounding tissues of the vaginal opening; as sexual tension builds so does physical tension. The same for males, the blood rushes to the penis causes increased sensitivity. If the woman reaches orgasm, the blood is released from the genital area and she feels a warm wave of intense pleasure with each contraction of her pelvic muscles. After experiencing an orgasm (or several if she is multi-orgasmic) she relaxes, both mind and body in the post-orgasmic after glow. Whew and Sighs….
For a man there is a difference between ejaculation and orgasm, apparently ejaculation feels great for him (if it didn’t then I really don’t think his goal would be to get off) this is the physical body reflex, an orgasm is different because he doesn’t need to ejaculate to do it, it is much like her orgasm. I say this, As it is a strong psychological erotic awareness accompanied with physical muscular contractions. For both males and females, the physical contractions occur in the pelvis, and usually in the muscles called the pubococcygeus, (aka PC muscles). One can increase the orgasmic intensity by doing kegel exercises to strengthen these muscles try with Ben Wa balls.

The problem with orgasms is that women don’t have enough of them! There are many different types of orgasms, for example: vaginal, anal, clitoral, G-spot, oral (by receiving), etc... Between 10 and 15 percent of women have never experienced an orgasm and only about 35 percent of women will orgasm through intercourse alone.
Some may ask How will I Know if I’ve had an orgasm?? Typically if this question is asked then she hasn’t experienced one. Every woman experiences a different orgasm, if you ask 10 women to describe theirs, you will get 10 different answers. Also each type of orgasm is different, a clitoral orgasm is much different than a G-sot orgasm. Some men (or women) may ask, ?How will I know if my partner has had her orgasm?.
Communication is the key for this one as each woman is different and there are no guaranteed indicators she has made it to that point. Most likely, her body will begin to tense, she may stop talking, either she will hold her breath or will begin to pant, and of course there may be an increase of natural lubrication. If you were to have a finger or two inside the vagina when she begins to orgasm, you then may feel minor (major to her like earthquakes) contractions around the opening. She might moan, scream, thrust, and remain motionless, etc through her orgasm. Some women expel female ejaculate (a clear watery fluid) some women do not. Some women can only orgasm when masturbating alone, some are scared to let go, and some don’t know how to reach climax.
How can these women experience and learn the wonderful world of orgasms?

For the women who don’t know exactly what to do to get herself to the point, suggest the following books:

Tickle Your Fancy- is an excellent guide to masturbation, which explains different techniques, strokes to use, and shows that a woman can take control over her sex life. This book also has diagrams and illustrations. An excellent book for women new to masturbation as well as for women with more experienced fingers.
Toygasms- this one is also an excellent book as it shows different toys and techniques to use. If you get a customer who does not know what kind of toy she is looking for try to sell her this book as it explains the benefits of different toys and what exactly they achieve.
Hot Sex- gives many tips on foreplay, orgasms, and different techniques. This book is for couples and has tips for both men and women.
Discover Your Sensual Potential- the cover of this book states it is a woman’s guide to guaranteed satisfaction. This one has chapters on control, motion, toys, and more.
How to Give Absolute Pleasure- This is a males guide to what women really want in order to reach their ultimate orgasm. This book has tips on foreplay, erogenous zones, his hands and what to do with them, oral sex, etc?
The Multi-Orgasmic Couple- helps men understand their orgasm and multiplying the orgasm, also teaches women to know their bodies and self-pleasure. Includes chapters on sexual energy, arousal, finding rhythm, etc?
The Ultimate Kiss- this one says you can experience more satisfying orgasms, includes pictures, 50+ unique oral techniques, as well as the art of both cunnilingus and fellatio, and includes the history of oral sex.
Erotic Passions- this book shows orgasmic massage techniques and is intended for lovers who wish to be more erotic.
Talk Sexy to the One You Love- teaches you to ask for what you really want.

Leeann from our store #149 found this information in Marie Claire Magazine:

Are you having all the orgasms you can?

What is it?: Your clitoris has more nerves than his penis does (reportedly more than 8000), and when it is stimulated, your entire genital area fills with blood, giving you that warm, tingly, "aroused" feeling. Blood vessels expand to accommodate the rush, and your pelvic muscles become more and more tense. Increasing the stimulation pays off: Your genitals send your brain a message, and your brain tells your muscles to contract. You feel the spasms as an orgasm concentrated in the genitals.

Want one? Seventy percent of women have clitoral orgasms, but if you haven't had one-or want a better one-sit on the bed with your back against the headboard, your knees bent, and the soles of your feet together. Touch your clitoris with different strokes: Try an up-and-down or a side-to-side movement, flick it gently, or do slow circles around the edge. Use increasing pressure as you become more aroused and settle on a rhythm that works. As you get closer to orgasm, press your heels against each other to add to the pressure on your genital muscles and make the release more intense. Or, get there with a vibrator: Press the tip firmly against your closed lips-direct stimulation may be too intense. Play with the pressure until you orgasm.

I recommend trying O-gel, a wireless clitoral stimulator (e.g.: clit critter unicorn), a vibe with a clitoral stimulator (e.g.: decadent indulgence!!!), etc?

What is it?: These orgasms feel deeper than clitoral ones, because the nerve pathways involved-the pelvic and hypo gastric pathways-stimulate areas deep in your body. Also, these orgasms give you a "full" feeling, caused by the uterus pulling up when the G spot is touched, says Beverly Whipple, R.N., Ph.D., co-authored of The G Spot. During a G-spot orgasm, some women expel a thin, milky fluid known as female ejaculation. The fluid isn't urine; it comes from the Skene's gland and ducts-the female equivalent of the male prostate gland.

Want one? Get aroused before you try to find your G spot. Arousal enlarges it to about the size of a quarter-it's impossible to feel otherwise. Squat and slide your first two fingers into your vagina with your palm facing your belly button. Rub the vaginal wall three to four inches up, feeling for an engorged, spongy area. Touch it with small, firm strokes with a come-here motion, until you feel more aroused. Let the sensation build to orgasm, even if you feel the urge to urinate. If you can't reach your G spot, lie down and use a G-spot vibrator or have your partner use his fingers. To have him hit the spot with his penis, get on top, lean back, and try different pelvic angles until you get a pleasurable, "filled-up" sensation. Let the intensity build, and don't give up if you don't reach orgasm the first time. There's nothing wrong if it doesn't happen at all-while all women have a G spot! Not everyone orgasms when it's touched.

I recommend trying a Slimline G vibe or a Tsunami Slim G-spot vibe.

What is it?: Intense breast stimulation makes your body release oxytocin, the chemical that makes you feel love and attachment, says Susan Kellogg, Ph.D., co director of sexual medicine at The Pelvic Floor Institute at Graduate Hospital in Philadelphia. Oxytocin affects specific nerves that, with increasing levels of arousal, lead to orgasm, says Kristene Whitmore, M.D., an urologist and co director of The Pelvic Floor Institute.

Want one? An estimated 20 percent of women can orgasm from nipple play alone. Get there yourself with this association trick: "Combine nipple stimulation with whatever usually works to get you off, says Carol Queen, Ph.D., staff sexologist at Good Vibrations, a San Francisco and Berkeley, CA, sex-toy shop and book and video publisher. "Each time you become aroused, give more and more attention to nipple play. Eventually, you may start climaxing from nipple stimulation alone."

I recommend trying an erotic massage, nipple nibbler or nipple clamps (vibrating or not).

What is it?: You can think your way to orgasm, because your body has the ability to respond to thoughts the same way it does to physical touch. In fact, a study by Dr. Whipple and her colleagues found that 100 percent of highly orgasmic women were able to "think themselves off" in a laboratory, and the orgasms that they experience were physically the same as clitoral or G-spot orgasms. Sexy thoughts trigger the sexual center of the brain-a complex system that includes the hypothalamus, which kicks your body's arousal cycle into high gear.

Want one? "Use all five senses when thinking racy thoughts," says Ava Cadell, Ph.D., author of 12 Steps to Everlasting Love. Imagine what his tongue feels like against your skin, how his body smells, and so on. Be aware of every feeling you have as you let arousal build. If this doesn't lead to orgasm right away, try thinking sensual thoughts before bed. "If you go to sleep feeling aroused, you might have a climax in your sleep," says Dr. Cadell. Studies suggest that up to 20 percent of women already have mind-induced orgasms during erotic dreams.

I recommend trying to think of something that turns you on, visualize it and so on.

What is it?: When his penis is penetrating deeply into the back of the vaginal wall, he's stimulating all your pelvic and hypo gastric (deep vaginal) nerves. And your uterus presses downward for a feeling of fullness in the vagina. "This is the deep, thrusting coital orgasm that is often sought after," says Dr. Kellogg.

Want one? While fully aroused, get into the position that allows for the deepest penetration, recommends Barbara Keesling, Ph.D., author of The Good Girl's Guide to Bad Girl Sex. That's usually with you on top or him entering you from behind. Adjust the angle of your pelvis until the tip of his penis touches your cervix. For some women, the slightest touch brings on orgasm. For others it may hurt, though it isn't harmful. For still others, he needs to thrust forcefully but carefully, bumping the cervix with a little more energy.

What is it?: "Anal stimulation can trigger the same nerve pathways as a deep-vaginal orgasm, so it will feel similar," says Dr. Whitmore.

Want one? With your fingers or his, start with light strokes just outside the anal opening, moving in slow circles, Dr. Queen suggests. If you want penetration, relax and have him insert one or two well lubricated fingers about two inches into the rectum. If he's using his penis or a toy, have him go very slowly. To avoid spreading bacteria, he should wash up and change the condom before touching you again.

I recommend trying an Anal Plug or a Beginners Butt Plug.

What is it?: By touching two orgasm zones at the same time, "you can set off different nerve pathways and different erogenous zones all at once," Dr. Kellogg says. "These are reported to be the most intense orgasms of all."

Want one? Alternate stimulation between the orgasms you enjoy most, suggests Laura Corn, author of The Great American Sex Diet. Get halfway aroused with one type, and then change to the other. Switch three times before reaching the brink, and finish by massaging both areas at once, says Corn. Go even further with a "tri-orgasm": "Stimulate the clitoris, G spot, and anus at the same time until you reach climax from all three," says Dr. Cadell. " Nothing is bigger and better than that".