Bondage toys include gags, blindfolds, masks and restraints. These toys can be used in erotic power games alongside the 'play wear', nipple toys and whips. In order to fully enjoy bondage toys, one person would be the 'dominant' or 'top', and the other person would be the 'submissive' or 'bottom'. The person who places the bondage toys experience the thrill of erotic domination, while the submissive experience the thrill of erotic surrender. There should be a 'stop' signal or safety word worked out before engaging in erotic games that can be used or called at any time and be honoured, as nobody should be hurt or forced. It should be a unique word, avoid words like 'don't' or 'stop' or 'please no'. These words could be misinterpreted as being part of the bondage play.

Blindfolds: If you're new to erotic power games, blindfolds can be a comfortable introduction, as the 'bottom's' hands and feet are not bound so he or she can always feel safe and remove the blindfold if so desired. In these games, it can be fun for both lovers when the dominant partner (the top) blindfolds the submissive partner (the bottom). For the top, tying a blindfold asserts power. " I can take sight away from you”. For the bottom, accepting the blindfold means erotic surrender. "I give you the power to deny me sight” With sight temporarily eliminated, the bottom can also focus more intently on the other erotic senses: touch, taste, smell and hearing. For both lovers, a blindfold allows creative fantasies of inviting other to watch or join in. You can simulate the 'others' with dildos or other toys. A blindfold can also be used along with other restraints. Try the Black Satin Love Mask, Leather Blindfolds or Fleece lined blindfolds.

Gags: Some gags are simply a piece of cloth or leather that cover the mouth. Others include balls (the size of golf balls) that fill the mouth in addition to covering it. Gags do not eliminate sound, just words. The person wearing the gag can still moan or grunt. Gags can be a comfortable introduction if you are new to these 'games', as a bottom's hands and feet are not bound so he or she can always remove the gag (like the blindfold). A gag can also be used with other restraints as well. Try the Rubber Ball Gag or the Lavender Pleasure Play mask with ball gag.

Masks: Masks are toys used to create fantasies in the sexual content, as masks are an item of bondage play. They are placed by the dominant partner and worn by the submissive partner. The dominant partner could wear a mask as well (it all depends on what your fantasy is) some have eyeholes, others do not and function both as a mask and blindfold. Some cover the mouth and function as gags. Try any leather mask or the festive exotic feather mask.

Play Wear: They're sex, usually black, figure hugging and sure to ignite erotic fire. Playwear typically is the lingerie usually associated with S&M and bondage play. Think leather, latex, PVC, shoes, boots etc. You don't have to be into Fetish sex to enjoy play wear. Try it and see where you imagination takes you. Try Rubba Wear, Stilettos, Leather bra/ panty set, mini skirts, leather jockstrap.

Nipple Toys: Nipple toys can be worn and enjoyed by both men and women. Some nipple clips screw on, the screw allowing you or a lover to provide just the right amount of pressure you desire. Others look like hoop earrings and can be worn discreetly under clothing so just you and your honey know they're on. Some come wired for attachment to a vibrator for intense erotic sensations and a chain for decoration, or to lead the wearer around by the breasts links others. Try Erotic jewellery set, any of the SPF adjustable clamps, multi-speed nipple clamps or the white or blue crystal nipple rings.

Whips: "Whip” is a general term for any toy used to strike another—typically on the buttocks but elsewhere as well—and trigger sensations of erotic excitement. Whips come in a variety of styles. A classic whip has one long striking strand. A riding crop has a long flexible handle and one or two short strands. Try mini cat o' nine tails, riding crop, any size rubber whips, whip grip Zorro, or whip dick hand slapper

Any of these 'bondage toys' can be used with restraints or can come in kits with restraints. Some of the restraint kits to try include: Sport sheets Fantasy Kit, Bound to Please Chastity Set, or the Lover's Fantasy Kit. Other restraints that can be used with 'bondage toys' are: tethers, sport cuffs, handcuffs, Reds Leather Restraints for wrists and ankles, Door Jam Cuffs, Hog Tie Kit, Bondage Tape and of course the King or Queen Size Sport Sheets with the restraints attached right to them!

Remember: scenes involving restraints are best worked out in detail
Beforehand, with a 'stop' signal or word the bottom can invoke any time he or she feels uncomfortable. The top must honour the stop signal immediately. The Irony of Bondage is that the submissive partner is actually the one in control. When using restraints no one should ever feel threatened or get hurt.